Divorce is difficult, but being well-prepared can make the process smoother. If you’re divorcing in Tennessee, there are a few important state-specific details to consider. Here's a step-by-step guide to help you prepare before meeting your attorney:
1. Gather Essential Documents
Your attorney will need comprehensive information about your financial and personal situation. Here’s what to bring:
- Financial Records: Bank statements, tax returns (last three years), pay stubs, investments, retirement accounts, and debts (credit cards, loans, mortgages).
- Property Information: Deeds, appraisals, titles, and info on jointly owned assets like cars, homes, or valuable items.
- Marriage Documents: Marriage certificate, prenuptial/postnuptial agreements, and previous legal filings.
- Custody Information: For children, bring birth certificates, school records, medical history, and any court orders or agreements on custody.
2. Tennessee-Specific Divorce Requirements
- Grounds for Divorce: Tennessee allows both no-fault divorces (based on irreconcilable differences) and fault-based ones (adultery, abandonment, etc.). Be prepared to discuss which grounds apply to your case.
- Residency Requirements: At least one spouse must have lived in Tennessee for six months before filing.
3. Outline Your Priorities and Goals
Think about what matters most—financial security, child custody, or specific assets. Write these down to clearly communicate your goals to your attorney.
4. Create a Post-Divorce Budget
Understand your financial needs after the divorce. Tennessee is an equitable distribution state, meaning property is divided fairly, not necessarily equally. Create a realistic budget, factoring in living expenses, child care, and any spousal/child support.
5. Prepare a Timeline of Key Events
Your attorney will need to understand the key events in your marriage. Write a timeline that includes major milestones, disputes, and your current living situation.
6. Stay Organized
Keep your paperwork organized, whether in a physical folder or a digital file, for quick access during meetings with your attorney.
7. Prepare Emotionally
Divorce is emotionally draining. Consider seeing a therapist to stay mentally prepared for the legal process and decision-making.
8. List Your Questions
Divorce is complex, so write down any questions you have about the process, timelines, and costs to avoid missing important details during your meeting.
9. Be Honest and Transparent
Be open with your attorney, even if some details are uncomfortable. Transparency ensures your lawyer can build the best strategy for your case.
10. Discuss Legal Fees
Tennessee divorces vary in complexity, and costs can add up. Make sure to discuss your attorney’s fee structure upfront to avoid surprises and plan accordingly.
Navigating a divorce in Tennessee doesn’t have to be overwhelming. With the right preparation and guidance, you can confidently move forward. If you’re ready to take the next step, reach out to me today.
Contact:
Michele McGill
Family Law & Civil Litigation
615-389-6453